Blending Families w/Intention & Raising 5 Empowered Kids: Shared by Trey & Valerie Danna

In this conversation, Trey and Valerie share their experiences of blending families, navigating past's trauma, and raising children in a supportive and intentional environment. They discuss the challenges of merging two families, the importance of giving children space, and the need for open communication. The couple emphasizes the significance of family traditions, supporting individuality, and the journey of empty nesting. Their insights provide valuable lessons for parents and families navigating similar situations.

Trey and Valerie Danna are a dynamic husband-and-wife team who play and work together. Professionally, they are dedicated to helping clients find their perfect home. Personally, they navigate daily what it means to blend and become a new type of family. With their five children—Harrison (26), Parker (24), Avery (21), Logan (19), and Luke (18)—and their beloved flat coat retriever, Lucca, Trey and Valerie understand the importance of finding a place that truly feels like home.

Having just entered the exciting empty nest phase of life, Trey and Valerie are adjusting to the joys of a quieter household and the novelty of grocery shopping just once a week. 

You can learn more about them on their website treydanna.com, Instagram or on LinkedIN. 

Takeaways

• Blending families requires intentionality and open communication.
• Children need their own space to adjust to new family dynamics.
• It's important to support each child's individuality within a blended family.
• Family meals can serve as a grounding point for connection.
• Navigating trauma is crucial for both parents and children.
• Establishing family traditions helps create a sense of belonging.
• Embracing the challenges of teenage transitions is essential.
• Empty nesting can be a time for renewed connection and support.
• Play and shared activities strengthen family bonds.
• Community support is vital during times of transition.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey of Blending Families
09:52 Navigating Trauma and Healing
16:15 Intentionality in Blending Families
20:51 Challenges of Teenage Transitions
31:32 Managing High School Dynamics
35:24 The Importance of Family Meals
41:47 Supporting Individuality in a Blended Family
50:45 Embracing Empty Nesting
01:00:24 Creating Family Traditions

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